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Hey everyone!
It has come to my attention that no one is visiting my site, I'd like to thank the two people who have, thanks Amanda and Tonia!! Oh, well, you'll probably all come around soon! I'd like to tell you a bit about my roomate, for privacy's sake we'll call her Eliza. "Eliza came to me with a problem the other day, it seems her and her mother are in a bit of an argument, and Eliza is refusing to go home to see her for her birhtday. She came to me crying and upset, because she really does love her mum but sometimes it seems they just can't get along, and she thought a break might be the best idea, because she usually goes home every week to visit her, but she feels she made a big mistake now and is unsure what to do. So this is where I come in! I calmly assured her that indeed, her mother did still love her, because I've met her mother, and she's just that kind of person, and because, when I was younger, I was faced with a similar situation myself. I also told her that, while "taking a break" might make her feel free, independant, and accomplished for the first little while, she will eventually miss her, wether it takes a few days to a few years, it was in her case about 2 weeks. I explained to her that the best thing to do, was to calmly sit down with her mother, and have a chat, but to do this calmly and to not yell as this will cause more pain and anger. So today, she went across town to her moms house and sat down with her, and they hugged and cried, and said how much they missed and loved each other and talked things over, and now Eliza's happy again, instead of mopeing around the place all the time. So I hope this explains to you all, that you can trust me, I make, in my opinion wise desicions...So I hope you all had a great weekend! See you later!