Happy Pancake Tuesday to those few who stop by!  Today is a day to indulge on that fluffy goodness, smothered in ooey-gooey syrup, even if your roomates cooking skills suck and half the batch comes out spilling pancake mix and the other half comes out drier than the desert sun, and you can bearly stomach two!  Well, that's how my supper went! It's lucky for Eliza that her boyfriend cooks and that she got to go to her mom's for REAL pancakes...oh well! I ended up just having a salad...pretty good if I do say so myself!  So a young girl from down the hall came to talk to me today, she's only about fifteen, and she was upset because her boyfriend, (am I the only person in the world who doesn't have a boyfriend?!?!) wanted to have sex with her even though they'd only been going out about a month!  Well, in my opinoin she's too young anyway..but hey, I hold no judgement. So I asked her if SHE was ready to have sex, and she thought about it for a moment and, though she'd thought about it, she definetley was not ready to go "all the way." So I explained to her that if she didn't want to do it that is what's right for her, never mind what the boy thinks, it's her body, and if he can't respect that and wait, then he obviously isn't the right one.  I know my first time wasn't very good, because there was no love, it was simply lust...and I fell terrible about that now, looking back over the years..All you young girls out there just remember, virtue is like a white peice of paper, once you make a mark on it, you can never take it off..Well it's about time I hit the hay, I've got a busy day tomorrow! And then I have to pack because I'm visiting my mum in Sudbury this weekend, don't worry though, all you devoted fans,  I'll still be writing posts, my mum may be old, but she does have a computer! Well, goodnight everybody!

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     It has come to my attention that no one is visiting my site, I'd like to thank the two people who have, thanks Amanda and Tonia!! Oh, well, you'll probably all come around soon!  I'd like to tell you a bit about my roomate, for privacy's sake we'll call her Eliza. "Eliza came to me with a problem the other day, it seems her and her mother are in a bit of an argument, and Eliza is refusing to go home to see her for her birhtday.  She came to me crying and upset, because she really does love her mum but sometimes it seems they just can't get along, and she thought a break might be the best idea, because she usually goes home every week to visit her, but she feels she made a big mistake now and is unsure what to do. So this is where I come in! I calmly assured her that indeed, her mother did still love her, because I've met her mother, and she's just that kind of person, and because, when I was younger, I was faced with a similar situation myself. I also told her that, while "taking a break" might make her feel free, independant, and accomplished for the first little while, she will eventually miss her, wether it takes a few days to a few years, it was in her case about 2 weeks. I explained to her that the best thing to do, was to calmly sit down with her mother, and have a chat, but to do this calmly and to not yell as this will cause more pain and anger. So today, she went across town to her moms house and sat down with her, and they hugged and cried, and said how much they missed and loved each other and talked things over, and now Eliza's happy again, instead of mopeing around the place all the time. So I hope this explains to you all, that you can trust me, I make, in my opinion wise desicions...So I hope you all had a great weekend! See you later!

         Hello everyone! Yes, I know, it's kind of late to be posting a post but I just finished making changes and creating it! Like I said, this is the place to come if you have a problem. I'm always here to listen, and if buisness gets booming I might install one of those live chat things for people who are on when I'm on. No one knows who I am, how old I am or why I'm here. I can't tell you anything except the last question. I have a purpose and not to sound all preachy, but that purpose is to halp peope. You can think of me in whatever way you like, black, white, oriental, young, old, catholic, jewish, boy or girl(although I'll tell you know I am a girl!) I'm going to post things from my life things that happen, things that go on, and I'll try to post religiously, but sometimes things vome up, so if I'm not on for a bit just e-mail until I'm back on. I really hope I can count on everyone to give me a helping hand in making this blog something everyone can enjoy! I hope I like it here! Well, adios amigos!